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You may wonder why I
am doing this work and what qualifications I have? I think
I have the greatest qualification of all and that is the
full experience of the condition. Over a four year period
I encountered virtually every symptom a sufferer could have,
some severely. I feel I have a lot of understanding of what
the illness is about, on all levels because of my own personal
experiences.
I consider myself free
of M.E., but I shall always work towards optimum health
for the rest of my life and I want to help others to do
the same. I firmly believe that once the mechanisms of the
illness are understood that it is possible for every single
sufferer not only to improve their health, but eventually
to make a full recovery.
Through my training for
teaching dyslexic children and adults, I have learned to
counsel and above all, to listen and empathise with those
who have problems. Through Healing I have learned to give
and receive Unconditional Love and to live in the present
moment, whatever that might offer.
A good Analogy for the
illness is when it is at its worst, you see yourself at
the bottom of a sheer cliff with a hundred tiny hand and
footholds to use to get to the top. The was is not straight
forward of course. Sometimes we have to move sideways and
often we have to go down at the same timeuntil we see a
more suitable path. Many people try things out and because
they do not get to the top of the cliff immediately, they
stop doing them and of course, there they are at the bottom
again, their hopes dashed. Once I dropped this idea and
stopped looking for results all the time and just did something
because it was a beautiful thing to for my body, I made
much better progress.
M.E. is a syndrome with
numerous facets which will be different for each sufferer
even though the broad spectrum of symptoms remain the same.
My aim is to help you to understand what is happening to
your body, and they assist you to learn what what you need
to do to move to wellness. All Healing is ultimately Self
Healing and this is simple Unconditional Love, which you
can give to yoirself in full measure. Remember that even
though you are ill, you are still a beautiful person and
you deserve every support from yourself and certainly not
critisism.
I am very interested
in nutrition because having a clean diet and supporting
with the correct supplements is very important. There may
well be other underlying problems like Candida which are
causing the M.E. symptoms. which need to be addressed. I
am also conducting research into the effect on Chronic Fatigue
of Drinking large amounts of water and the results so far
are promising. Without doubt Hydration is a key step to
getting better.
This is an illness that
you need to look at in terms of energy systems. Your energy
is blocked on all levels, and you need to understand where
the blockages are before you can remove them.
These can appear on physical,
mental, emotional and spirtual planes, but wherever you
begin to unblock it does npt matter, because all the other
levels will be affected for the good.
I am particularly interested
in the emotional and spiritual nature of the illness and
M.E. is a perfect place of exploration for this. Many people
I have met who have this condition, are extremely sensitive
people. Their bodies find it difficult to cope and so they
run away from their sensitivity because they fear all the
emotions that are being thrown up. Just experience everything
without judgement. There are no good and bad emotions, only
expressed and unexpressed ones. Every time we repress an
emotion, it is lodged in our bodies and causes a blockage
and when there are enough energy blockages they manifest
as an illness. When we overdo things, the energy begins
flowing, tries to surge through the blockage and it is dislodged
as the origina emotion. If you are afrai of it, as all of
us areto begin with, it gets repressed again underneath
the fear, which also blocks energy. But if you welcome it
into the open and let it go, your body is freed and your
energy will flow better.
Any system which encourages
the flow of 'chi' will start to shift blockages, and good
nutrition and drinking adequate amounts of water are two
of them, as are homeopathy, kinesiology, healing, reflexology,
massage, yoga, accupuncture, tai chi and many more.
I am very much aware
of the financial restrictions that many people, who have
this illness, are under. Therefore my costs are purposely
very reasonable and will be given on request. Each session
will include a Healing treatment to balance and relax the
body. This is a very important part of the work, because
after a Journey and the efforts of talking, the body will
need to recuperate before you set off home. You should find
it relaxing. Learning to relax is of course another key
issue for Recovery.
Above all I want to teach
you to love yourself completely, including every one of
those debilitating symptoms. They are only trying to point
out where the trouble lies, and need to be welcomed into
the open instead of pushed back in fear. Sometimes, although
it is difficult to believe at the time, when we are at the
point of our greatest pain, we are actually nearest to release.
Love is free. It expands
and relaxes the body and of all the ingedients for recovery
it is by far the most important. It costs nothing and you
don't have to rely on it being given to you by others, even
though it is very beautiful to receive it, because you can
give it to yourself at all times and in all places. And
remember, when you are at your lowest ebb, that is when
you need it the most of all.
Can you look at yourself
in the mirror and truly say, "I love you", and
mean every part of yourself? I certainly could not before
I was ill but I can now because there is nothing I have
yet met within myself, which is unlovable. This is M.E.'s
gift to me and for that I am profoundly grateful.
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